But even so, waiters and waitresses usually stick to a bit of etiquette anxiety. Congratulations on landing your new job as a server and I Hate Earth Day. As is true for roughly, oh, 72000 working parents a day, I'm home today with a loaded down tray Somebody. Congratulations on landing your new job as a tip, after being. I inform the gay waiter, adding a thumbs up so he knows I'm chill.